What is subspace?

What is subspace?

"Broadly speaking, subspace is generally regarded as a moderate to deep, almost trace-like, condition experienced by a submissive during intense or erotic interaction with their Dominant."

Have any of you been in subspace? How deep have you gone into subspace? Do you experience subspace easily or is it hard for you to get into?

My answers:
I've been in subspace quite a few times over the years. I've been in it to the point where I just started zoning out and floating and everything was far away, but then where I was super far in it and I couldn't speak anymore for awhile after the scene ended. I find subspace hard to get into, which I hate because I love being in subspace alot 🥰 but for me personally it is something that takes alot to put me into. I think part of that for me comes with a few people I played with that once I entered subspace it freaked them out because my reactions to the scene we were having changed and they stopped the scene and brought me out of it without letting me enjoy being in subspace and enjoy it. So, I feel like because of that I have some sort of unconscious block to go into subspace now because I don't want who I'm playing with to not be experienced in the changes that happen when a sub enters subspace and then freak out and pull them out of it immediately without them being able to enjoy it. Because you can still scene after the sub enters subspace. It let's them enjoy it longer and get deeper as well as let's you as a Top enjoy the scene as well and hopefully enter Topspace too.

My birthday wish this year is to donate $33 or more to TWLOHA

Ok so as you can see on, Thursday, June 1, 2018, 

I had 23 days till I turned 33 this year and I 

was the first to donate to my chosen charity To 

Write Love On Her Arms. I started off by donating 

$10.00 and am hoping that my friends and family 

will help me donate $23.00 or more by the end of 

June!!! 

As of now, Sunday, June 3, 2018, I have 21 more 

days till I turn 33, but I want to keep the 

donations going until the end of June to make 

sure that all of my friends and family and their 

friends and family, have time to help donate what 

they can or share if they can't donate. 

So, Christa what is To Write Love On Her Arms 

exactly?

"To Write Love on Her Arms is an American non-
profit organization which aims to present hope 
for people struggling with addiction, depression, 
self-injury and thoughts of suicide while also 
investing directly into treatment and recovery. 
Based in Melbourne, Florida, TWLOHA seeks to 
connect people to treatment centers, websites, 
books, support groups and other resources. TWLOHA 
also encourages people to have honest 
conversations about these issues, and to live in 
community."

If you would like to learn more about TWLOHA, you 

can head over to their official website here.

Why did you choose it as your charity? 

I choose it as my charity because when I was in 

Middle School and 11 years in in the 6th grade 

and I first started self injury and didn't know 

what it was and dealing with depression and not 

knowing with that was either. I ended up learning 

about TWLOHA through one of the teen magazines 

that wrote an article about it one month and I 

ended up realizing that I related to it alot and 

wanted to learn about it and so I did and I began 

supporting it as much as I could by advertising 

it online in my blogs and forums I was on and 

talking about it to friends and family. I even 

donated money to them when I had the chance and I 

still do to this day as you can see. 

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